10. Happiness Dilemma

Wednesday, August 26, 2015
There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved. -George Sand

Life constantly throws curveballs at you. Could be in numerous ways: financial, emotional, etc. I am sort of in the middle of a bunch of them that make me happy but also bring me down. We as humans go through various states, moods, emotions throughout the day. Happiness is the one that mostly everyone wants to accomplish yet happiness isn't permanent. That might sound like a dull and harsh statement but take a moment to grasp that statement. Think of one of your happiness moments and remember how long that "happiness stage" really lasted. 

This isn't just with happiness but with any other emotion. Sadness is temporary. I can go on and list every emotion you can think of and realize that all of that is temporary. Why is that?
Well, everything is life isn't forever. As much as we would want things to last forever they truly don't. I can list a couple examples in case you can't grasp that idea. When you watch a Netflix show, you watch it, enjoy it but eventually 3-7 seasons long depending on the show. It ends. Eras where you and your buddies hangout often have the best nights of your life playing video games or doing whatever you want. Eventually it ends. You start talking to this guy or girl things are going great but then things take a different route and what happens. They end.

This blog post is not meant to depress people or make people sad. I just wrote this because I realized this situation keep repeating over and over and it caught my attention. I'm no person to give advice or tell you what's right and what's wrong. Experience is not gain with age but with preparation. 

What I intended from this blog post is that we do not know when the next happiness moment will rise. When the next memory will appear.  I try to stay positive the most I can. I strongly believe that time cures situations and provides new opportunities. Many believe that happiness is just for oneself when happiness could be for someone else. Since we are not use to that it is difficult for one to accommodate to this but if it's what the person needs then one must do it in order for the other person to be happy. 

Sometimes one needs to suffer in order for the other to be happy. That is how love is sometimes. If it makes the other person happy and that is what they want then I'm devoted to do that because that person makes you feel something special in your heart. If someone makes you feel special in a way no one ever has ever done, you should tell them how you feel. Maybe what you say is completely irrelevant, wrong timing, etc. But getting it out of your chest, kind of how I do in these blogs helps out a lot and I strongly recommend it! Sorry for going in many directions with the topics emotions fluctuate throughout the writing process.